Hawthorn bloom in May
Last Friday, June 17th was the anniversary of
John Cowper Powys’s death. Death is
something he often addresses in both his philosophical books and in his works
of fiction but this is not a gloomy focus on something we would rather ignore. It is a source of life-affirming advice.
In the modern world, we tend to hide death away. Of course, we see images on tv of wars,
murders, and natural disasters but in our day-to-day lives we are protected
from it. People in the past dealt with
death on a regular basis when infant mortality rates were high, maternal mortality during childbirth often occurred, infectious diseases were rife and there was no safety
net of a welfare state or the NHS. Today, most people die in hospital or in
residential care rather than in their own homes and the care of the deceased is
then put into the hands of undertakers. We
tend to shy away from anything associated with death, not wanting to face the
inevitable and is reflected in our attitudes to aging and death. Many people seek ‘eternal youth’ and spend
much time and money in fighting the inevitable processes of aging by undergoing
radical cosmetic surgery, injecting ‘filler’s and other materials into their body. There is nothing wrong with maintaining and
caring for an aging body but there is a prevailing culture of youth that
refuses to accept the inevitable. Of course,
this is fuelled by advertising, and companies and businesses who depend on such
ideas for their success. We have all
heard of the experiments in ‘freezing’ bodies so that the person can be woken
into life again at a later date; the promise of eternal life. JCP believed that such attitides and beliefs are
the cause of many of our problems.
Powys reminds us of the inevitability of death. “Look around you” he tells us, observe nature
and the cycle of life and death. Everything
- plant, fungi, fish, bird, animal, human being - comes into being and
dies. When we fully recognise this
natural process we will be less afraid of it.
“Life is short” is a cliché that trips off our tongues but how often do
we stop and fully consider what this means? If we stop and really think about it we will
come to a deep understanding of this one and only sure and inevitable fact of
life - our own death – and this can instil in us the desire to change how we
live. When we fully realise how short
and precious life is we will be more likely to make the most of the time we
have and not fritter our lives away. Recognising
we all share the same fate can lead us to treat others with more understanding, empathy and
compassion.
Looking at the inevitability of our own death may not be
something we want to do but it can have a positive impact on our quality of
life. It can lead to change and to transforming the way in which we live. The fact that life is short will cease to be
a tired cliché and instead will be the mantra by which we live. We will make
better use of ever precious moment and really live rather than merely
exisiting.

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